COMMENTARY 889.1: Box Full of Love

by Josephson Institute on July 18, 2014

in Caring, Compassion, Education

Todd was a sadly quiet eleven-year-old struggling to adjust to the death of his mother. His father left long ago and he was living with an aunt who made it known that she resented the responsibility. On several occasions, Sheryl, the boy’s teacher, heard the aunt tell Todd, “If it weren’t for my generosity you would be a homeless orphan.”

Sheryl took extra pains to make Todd feel valued and she encouraged his interest in making things. Just before the Christmas break, Todd shyly presented her with a small decorated box he’d made.

“It’s beautiful,” Sheryl gushed.

Todd replied, “There’s something very special inside that my mom gave to me before she died. She said it’s the one thing I can give and still have plenty left. It helps you feel better when you’re sad and safe when you’re scared.”

As Sheryl started to open the box, Todd warned her, “Oh, you can’t see it.”

“Well, what is it?” Sheryl asked kindly.

“It’s love. And you’re the first person since my mom that I love.”     Sheryl hugged Todd tightly and said, “I’ll treasure this forever. It’s the best gift I ever got.” She kept it on her desk until she retired and touched it whenever she was sad or scared. It never failed to make her heart smile.

Years later, Todd sent her the tassel he wore during his graduation from medical school. It’s been in the box ever since.

In truth, it’s love, not diamonds, that’s the gift that keeps on giving. What’s more, love generates itself. The more you give away, the more you have left.

This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts.

{ 4 comments… read them below or add one }

Chinelo July 5, 2013 at 5:32 am

It’s so amazing the impact a mother’s gift could carry on in a child’s life . Indeed mothers are supreme let’s keep sharing love it’s medicinal . I am really touched.

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Sally Scheib July 5, 2013 at 6:57 am

This is a beautiful story. One person can make a huge difference. It reminds me to treasure the people in my life who have made a difference, and it inspires me to try to help someone else who may be struggling.

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Judi July 29, 2014 at 6:02 pm

As an elementary school counselor, on occasion children have made wishful statements about me being their mother. I intend to set a box on my desk as a reminder that the invisible reward received for showing compassion and genuine positive regard to my students is far more fulfilling than a paycheck!

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Michael Josephson August 1, 2014 at 5:56 am

I love that idea. Thanks for sharing it.

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