In her book “Gifts of the Heart”, Betty Youngs tells of a man who read an appeal in his church bulletin to gather food, gifts and toys to help a church family have a better Christmas.
The man, I’ll call him Jim, whose own family was struggling, pointed to the bulletin and told his wife, “We must help.” So, the couple and their three young sons collected a few items of food, clothing, and toys from the little they had. “This is the heart of Christmas,” he told his boys as they headed to the church, adding his donation to the pile of donated gifts and joined a caravan of cars to deliver the gifts to needy families.
In a few minutes he was surprised to find the caravan entering his street. Then the cars parked in front of his home and left packages in front of the door. His family had been identified as a worthy family in need. Though Jim was among the most needy in his community he still wanted to and was able to help others.
This story illuminates a profound truth about the concept of generosity and compassion. It shows us that everyone has something to give, no matter their circumstances. Generosity is not measured by the size of the gift but by the intention behind it.
As Mother Teresa once said, “It’s not how much we give but how much love we put into giving.” Jim, despite his own struggles, recognized that he and his family could contribute something of value. In doing so, he taught his children — and us — a timeless lesson: the act of giving enriches both the giver and the receiver.
Altruism, at its core, is an act of faith in humanity. It reflects a belief that our small acts of kindness can create ripples of hope and joy in the lives of others.
Jim’s story demonstrates that altruism is not about abundance; it’s about attitude. Voluntarily giving our time and possessions without any desire or expectation of anything except the hope that it will give comfort or a moment of happiness to another is the highest expression of human morality.
John Wesley put it simply: Do all the good you can./ By all the means you can./ In all the places you can./ At all times you can./ As long as ever you can.
This holiday season, reflect on what you have to give. Whether it’s time, kindness, or material support, your contribution has the power to uplift others and strengthen the bonds that connect us all. Let the spirit of altruism inspire you to give not just more, but more meaningfully.
So, here’s my suggestion, — whatever organizations you were thinking of giving to this year, add just one more. Whatever amount you were thinking of giving, add just 10% more. Stretch yourself. It will mean a lot to those you help and to your heart.