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Some years ago, a senior executive at a Fortune 100 company objected when I asserted that corporations have an ethical, as well as a legal obligation to keep promises and honor their contracts. He said that the decision to live up to or ignore contractual commitments is a business decision, not an ethical one. The other party has legal remedies, he said, and therefore responsible managers have a duty to evaluate whether it’s in the company’s best interest to honor or breach contracts. The decision should be based on a simple cost/benefit analysis. Ethics has nothing to do with it.

Disturbingly common, this claim of moral immunity is based on the erroneous idea that in business the only thing to consider is self-interest. The theory that expediency, not ethics, should control decision making flourishes because many people compartmentalize their lives into personal and business domains, assuming each is governed by different standards of ethics. [click to continue…]

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COMMENTARY 828.3: Teach Or Punish, That Is the Question

May 21, 2013 Commentaries

As Greg paces the floor, waiting for his 17-year-old daughter Sandy to return from a school event, he feels two conflicting emotions: fear and anger. Fear that something terrible has happened to her. Anger because he thinks his fear is probably unfounded and Sandy is not hurt, simply irresponsible. Finally, Sandy calls. She’s all right. [...]

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COMMENTARY 828.2: Self-Control

May 20, 2013 Commentaries

A frazzled mother with a fussy child caught the eye of a grocery store manager. He overheard her say, “Lily, you can do this. We just have to get a few things.” Moments later, when the child became more upset, the mother said calmly, “It’s okay, Lily. We’re almost done.” When the child became hysterical [...]

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COMMENTARY 828.1: Noah’s Term Paper

May 17, 2013 Choices

Noah really needed an ‘A’ on a term paper.  His friend Jason tells him that lots of kids “re-cycle” papers they don’t write and offers to give him a paper his older brother got an ‘A’ on three years ago. When Noah asked his for advice, his father hoped his son wouldn’t cheat but he [...]

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Thumbnail image for QUOTE & POSTER: Doing what you must is duty Doing what you should is virtue Doing what you can is service Doing what you are afraid of is courage Doing what you like is freedom. Liking what you do is happiness

QUOTE & POSTER: Doing what you must is duty Doing what you should is virtue Doing what you can is service Doing what you are afraid of is courage Doing what you like is freedom. Liking what you do is happiness

May 16, 2013 Quotes, Observations
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Thumbnail image for QUOTE & POSTER: No one ever said on their deathbed, “I wish I spent more time at the office.”

QUOTE & POSTER: No one ever said on their deathbed, “I wish I spent more time at the office.”

May 16, 2013 Quotes, Observations
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COMMENTARY 827.5: Ethics: Easier Said Than Done

May 16, 2013 Commentaries

As a full-time ethicist – can you believe there even is such a thing? – I spend lots of time talking and writing about right and wrong. One thing I’ve learned is that in the last analysis, consistently doing the right thing is easier said than done. For one thing, it’s not always easy knowing [...]

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COMMENTARY 827.4: Avoiding Temptations

May 15, 2013 Commentaries

When my daughter Samara was four she pointed to a delicate glass vase and asked, “What’s that?” “It’s very special,” I answered. “It was my mother’s. I would really feel bad if it ever got broken, so please be careful to never, never touch it.” Without a moment’s hesitation she said, “Then you should never, [...]

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Thumbnail image for QUOTE & POSTER: Be cautious but not timid; Believe you will succeed, But don’t be afraid of failing. Remember, every meaningful Achievement is built on the foundation stones of false starts and failure. -Michael Josephson

QUOTE & POSTER: Be cautious but not timid; Believe you will succeed, But don’t be afraid of failing. Remember, every meaningful Achievement is built on the foundation stones of false starts and failure. -Michael Josephson

May 14, 2013 Quotes, Observations
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Thumbnail image for QUOTE & POSTER: It’s better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for something you are not. –Andre Gide

QUOTE & POSTER: It’s better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for something you are not. –Andre Gide

May 14, 2013 Quotes, Observations
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COMMENTARY 827.3: I Didn’t Want the Janitor to Lose His Job

May 14, 2013 Commentaries

The primary responsibility for instilling good values and building character is with parents. This doesn’t mean, however, that teachers and coaches don’t have a critically important role. The unfortunate fact is that far too many kids are raised in morally impoverished settings that foster lying, cheating, and violence. If we don’t give these children moral [...]

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WORTH SEEING: My Daughter Abrielle

May 12, 2013 Commentaries

Okay on Mothers Day I give all the credit to her mom, Anne for her intelligence, talent and beauty but I still think of this as a nice Dad’s moment: Daughter Abrielle was selected as the class speaker at her high school graduation — look out world, another Josephson talker; and, last night, along with [...]

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WORTH READING: Observation of a young mom about her mom

May 12, 2013 Commentaries

This is a post from my articulate and sensitive niece, Edana Yick,  to her Facebook. Well said, I think.  Have any of you had similar transformations of thought? “Weird that everything that bugged and embarrassed me most about my mom when I was a teenager are the very things I most love, admire and appreciate [...]

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COMMENTARY 827.2: A Call for More Civility

May 11, 2013 Commentaries

When George Washington was 16, he discovered a booklet of 110 maxims describing how a well-mannered person should behave. He was so convinced that these maxims would help him become a better person that he set out to incorporate them into his daily living. Among Washington’s many virtues, his commitment to civility marked him as [...]

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QUOTE & POSTER: I am who I am Your approval isn’t needed

May 10, 2013 Quotes, Observations
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QUOTE & POSTER: Stop Underestimating Yourself

May 10, 2013 Quotes, Observations
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COMMENTARY 827.1: Slow Dance

May 10, 2013 Caring, Compassion

I once heard the chairman and CEO of a huge public company tell a roomful of ambitious, hardworking, dedicated executives that if he had to do it all over again, he would have spent more time with his family. That’s not news, but to Type-A personalities, it’s easier said than done. David L. Weatherford’s poem [...]

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A Letter from Bogota: What Do You Think About CHARACTER COUNTS! in Colombia?

May 9, 2013 Choices

I am writing this post from Bogota, Colombia. I am halfway through a full week of high-level meetings and various presentations to educators, parents and government officials. What am I talking about? Ethics and character, of course. More specifically, I am sharing my thoughts and the Institute’s strategies and programs dealing with character development, parenting, [...]

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COMMENTARY 826.5: Bridge Builder

May 9, 2013 Caring, Compassion

Martin Luther King, Jr. said, “Life’s most persistent and urgent question is: What are you doing for others?” In a world increasingly dominated by unapologetic selfishness, this idea may seem quaint and outdated. Yet, for those who have a grand vision of their purpose and value, striving to be of service is not only a [...]

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COMMENTARY 826.4: Big Rock First

May 8, 2013 Choices

There’s a well-traveled story about a teacher who showed his class a one-gallon jar and a dozen large rocks. After a little rearranging, he got all the rocks into the jar, filling it to the top. He then dumped a bag of gravel into the jar until the spaces between the rocks were filled. Next [...]

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