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Thumbnail image for QUOTE & POSTER: Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them become what they are capable of becoming. – Goethe

QUOTE & POSTER: Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them become what they are capable of becoming. – Goethe

May 7, 2013 Quotes, Observations
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COMMENTARY 826.3: Making Lives

May 7, 2013 Commentaries

A few years ago I came across a video by a very dynamic speaker, a former middle school teacher named Taylor Mali. He is now what’s called a performance poet — someone who delivers poetry as singers deliver songs. The poem that caught my attention was “What Do I Make?” an articulate and aggressive response to a critic [...]

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Thumbnail image for QUOTE & POSTER: The one who follows the crowd will usually get no further than the crowd. The one who walks alone, is likely to find himself in places no one has ever been. –Albert Einstein

QUOTE & POSTER: The one who follows the crowd will usually get no further than the crowd. The one who walks alone, is likely to find himself in places no one has ever been. –Albert Einstein

May 6, 2013 Quotes, Observations
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COMMENTARY 826.2: Do I Have to Tell Everything?

May 6, 2013 Commentaries

Should a job applicant properly withhold information about a criminal record or termination from a previous job? Should a woman starting a new relationship say nothing about a previous marriage or abortion? These are problems of candor: When does an ethical person have a duty to reveal negative information about his or her past? First, [...]

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COMMENTARY 826.1: Is It Really Only About Winning?

May 3, 2013 Commentaries

Long ago, I entered law school wanting to do good. I left more concerned with doing well. In an atmosphere dominated by raging competitive instincts, persuasive rationalizations, and real economic pressures, cynicism drowned out idealism. My notion of the legal system as a grand forum for the pursuit of truth and justice was reduced to [...]

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Thumbnail image for QUOTE & POSTER: In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure. – Bill Cosby

QUOTE & POSTER: In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure. – Bill Cosby

May 2, 2013 Quotes, Observations
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COMMENTARY 825.5: The Scorpion and Human Nature

May 2, 2013 Commentaries

Terry and his dad Glen were walking along the shore and came upon a scorpion struggling in the tide, trying to get back to the sand. Glen tried to scoop the creature up, but the scorpion stung him and fell back into the tide. Glen tried again and was stung again. Terry said, “Dad, leave [...]

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QUOTES & POSTER: I’ve failed over & over & over again in my life & that is why I succeed. – Michael Jordan

May 1, 2013 Quotes, Observations
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COMMENTARY 825.4: How to Change Attitudes and Behavior — “I Can Do It and It’s Worth It.”

May 1, 2013 Commentaries

In yesterday’s commentary, I talked about a teacher named Shavonne who was at wits end with several students, including Leon, whose lack of self-control when he became angry or frustrated constantly created trouble.  She was certain that nothing short of intense therapy could change his behavior. Changing Leon’s behavior will be a challenge, but it [...]

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COMMENTARY 825.3: Changing Self-Limiting Beliefs and Bad Behavior

April 30, 2013 Caring, Compassion

Shavonne, a third-grade teacher, was at the end of her rope with disciplinary problems, but she wasn’t enthusiastic when she was told that her school had adopted the CHARACTER COUNTS! program. Now she was expected to explicitly seek to instill and enhance in her students core ethical values like honesty, respect, and responsibility, and to [...]

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Thumbnail image for QUOTE & POSTER: If you fell down yesterday, stand up today. –H.G. Wells

QUOTE & POSTER: If you fell down yesterday, stand up today. –H.G. Wells

April 30, 2013 Quotes, Observations
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COMMENTARY 825.2: Living and Reading

April 29, 2013 Commentaries

One of the most insightful and useful books I’ve ever read is a small volume by Harold Kushner called Living a Life That Matters. Today, I want to suggest ways of getting the most out of books, at least nonfiction books, which is about all I read. Reading shouldn’t be a passive experience. If you [...]

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COMMENTARY 825.1: Working Together

April 26, 2013 Commentaries

I want to be thin – especially when I’m not hungry. And it seems the President and members of Congress want to work together – especially if they don’t have strong feelings about the issue. I liked President Obama’s call for more civility and greater cooperation, but I’m not convinced it will happen. There’s always [...]

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Thumbnail image for QUOTE & POSTER: Live A Life That Matters Live it fully and completely at the time, and live it by remembering it and sharing it.

QUOTE & POSTER: Live A Life That Matters Live it fully and completely at the time, and live it by remembering it and sharing it.

April 25, 2013 Quotes, Observations
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Thumbnail image for QUOTE & POSTER: Former Air Force General William Cohen wrote a fine book called The Stuff of Heroes in which he identified eight laws of leadership. Here are his rules: Maintain absolute integrity. Know your stuff. Declare your expectations. Show uncommon commitment. Expect positive results. Take care of your people. Put duty before self. Get out in front.

QUOTE & POSTER: Former Air Force General William Cohen wrote a fine book called The Stuff of Heroes in which he identified eight laws of leadership. Here are his rules: Maintain absolute integrity. Know your stuff. Declare your expectations. Show uncommon commitment. Expect positive results. Take care of your people. Put duty before self. Get out in front.

April 25, 2013 Quotes, Observations
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COMMENTARY 824.5: Eight Laws of Leadership

April 25, 2013 Commentaries

Take a look around. Business, education, politics. If there’s one thing we don’t have enough of, it’s good leaders – men and women who have the vision and the ability to change things for the better. Former Air Force General William Cohen wrote a fine book called The Stuff of Heroes in which he identified [...]

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