QUOTE: “Those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” — Bernard Baruch

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Note: This utterance is often incorrectly attributed to Dr. Seuss.

The quote said to be from Dr. Seuss is actually widely circulated misattribution. “Those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind” actually came from FDR presidential advisor Bernard Baruch, about his dinner party seating arrangements.

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[“Those who matter don’t mind, and those who mind don’t matter” was Baruch’s] often-quoted response to Igor Cassini (a popular society columnist for the New York Journal American) when asked how he handled the seating arrangements for all those who attended his dinner parties. The quote first appeared in Shake Well Before Using: A New Collection of Impressions and Anecdotes Mostly Humorous (1948) by Bennett Cerf, p. 249. The full response was “I never bother about that. Those who matter don’t mind, and those who mind don’t matter.” This anecdote … has also become part of a larger expression, which has been commonly [and incorrectly] attributed to Dr. Seuss, even in print, but without citation of a specific work : “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.

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      Wow very impressive information. This post has received more contnuous hits than any other quote I’ve posted. Anyone have any idea why?

      1. Well, I clicked here because I have this saying in a frame on my wall. . . attributed to Dr. Suess. I just saw someone attribute it to this other guy, so I googled to find out what the real deal is.

      2. I googled the quote trying to figure out which Seuss book it’s from and that’s how I ended up here. Thanks for the info.

  3. well i was looking for this particular quote. I had read it almost 10 years back. Recently this quote again came into my mind but i could not recollect it and i googled it n saw it on this site.
    Thank you.

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  5. I googled it as I have hit a negative patch due to a decision I made and am trying to dismiss negative head chatter with positive vibes . The quote helps and I wanted to look further into its origin.

    1. I am looking for the author’s name and name of his book that used this affirmation on Dr. Oz on or around 12/13/19 or maybe 12/16/19. It’s a book on learning to love yourself. Could anyone help?????????

  6. sorry but it was not he who said it first either. This expression was used before..
    “Quote Investigator: There is no substantive evidence that Theodor Seuss Geisel wrote or said this expression. Researchers have been unable to locate the statement in any of his books. The second part of the statement was in circulation by the 1930s. The earliest instance located by QI was printed in 1938 in a journal based in London and written for municipal and county engineers. The phrase was used comically to discount the criticisms directed at housing designs. The words were enclosed in quotation marks suggesting that

    Mr. Davies himself admitted that it was highly controversial and open to the quip was already known in 1938: 1criticism; but criticism concerned both mind and matter. “Those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind!”

    1. Got a reference for that George?
      If indeed that was written in a London based journal…. I would still say that we can put it down as a quote by Baruch.

  7. If you read Quote Investigator, it explains that the earliest attributions found (of the second part of the quote) were credited to Sir Mark Young, Governor of Hong Kong, in February 1946 in a Canadian Publication “Empire Digest” and again in March 1946 in another Canadian Publication “Lethbridge Herald.” In May 1946 another story appeared in the U.S. in the “Omaha World Herald” also attributed to Sir Mark Young, but the dialog had been changed. Then in August 1946 the quote was found, attributed to Bernard Baruch.
    Theodor Seuss Geisel died in 1991, and within 10 years of his death, in the early 2000’s the quote started appearing as coming from him, but there is nothing found in his collective works showing that he ever said it.
    Quote Investigator states that it was probably an anonymous piece of wisdom as early as 1938.
    Also, there are several versions of the quote:
    Do what you want to do, say what you want to say, because those who matter don’t mind, and those who do mind don’t matter.
    Say what you want and be who you are, because those who matter don’t mind, and those who matter don’t mind.
    Always do what you want, and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.
    Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.
    It has also been found written as “Those that care don’t matter, and those that matter don’t care.”
    The simple truth is, this one has been evolving for some time, and the second part of the quote (Those who…) was circulating more than 50 years before the first part (Be who you are…) was added to the quote placed before the older second part.

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  11. The question I have is where does the part attributed to Dr. Seuss: “Be who you are and say what you feel, because” come from?
    This video does seem to point to this as being a part of his personal philosophy: ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oj5CCl3mrg&t=242 ) but not a direct quote. I’m thinking if it is a direct quote it came from an interview, not from any of his books as thoroughly researched. The trick is to research any and all interviews and articles about him.

    From https://quoteinvestigator.com/2012/12/04/those-who-mind/
    “The saying was used as a punchline in two anecdotes about seating at parties. The anecdotes appeared at roughly the same time circa 1946. One featured Sir Mark Young delivering the witticism, and the other featured Bernard Baruch as the quipster. The version with Young has a slight chronological precedence based on current data.” Neither Young or Baruch are attributed to that part of the “Seuss” quote. From my perspective these “two anecdotes about seating at parties” degrades the meaning behind the quote to a level of snobbery. I suspect they both were quoting someone else who was popular at the time, published prior to 1938.

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