1 12 Truths About Lying1. Honesty may not always pay, but lying always costs.

2. Trust is a tower, built stone by stone, lies take stones from the bottom.

3. There is no security in secrecy; every undiscovered lie is a live landmine.

4. Lies breed a bodyguard of new lies to protect themselves.

5. Lies look very different to the person lied to than the person telling the lie.

6. Rationalizing, justifying or trying to minimize a lie only deepens distrust.

7. When we are lied to we wonder: “What else have you lied to me about?”

8. It only takes one lie to make you a liar or distrust someone who lied to you.

9. Apologies for lying help but they can’t remove the scar or heal the wound.

10. You can’t disguise lies in half-truths or silence; a lie is a lie.

11. Lying is not only dishonest; it’s disrespectful.

12. When you lie to a liar your still a liar.

Michael Josephson


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  1. I especially like #11. One reason it is disrespectful is because the person telling the lie is, in essence, is assuming that the people he or she is telling the lie to are not intelligent enough to see through the lie.

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  3. Terrific post, Michael!
    In our Ethics class this week we learned about the definitions of and the moral implications of lying. What I found particularly interesting as how we tend to have a variety of excuses as to why our lies are justified. (Which just so happens to be illustrated in Truth #11 above!)

    Sissela Bok proposes that we should utilize a 3-level system for evaluating our own lies and whether or not they are warranted (Richard L. Johannesen, 2008):
    First, we must filter through our own consciences.
    We then seek an external source: a friend, co-worker, ethics expert, etc.
    There should be public debate over the morality of the

  4. This is so powerful! And it is so true!! As Christians, how many times do we lie to God. We read our Bibles and make it say what we want instead of allowing it to speak to our hearts. Instead of allowing the Bible to interpret itself, we give it our own interpretation…. We lie to ourselves and to others when we tell others what we think it says instead of allowing them to read for themselves and find the truths God is trying to lead them to…. I am thankful that God blinks at our ignorance and lies. The opposite of a lie is the “Truth”. Jesus said, “I am the Way, the Truth and the Life.” Anything that goes against that, is a lie! I just read 12 things that I do. Not intentional, but still it happens in so many ways. Thank you for calling us to a higher standard and reminding us what it really is!!

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