If you want to punish someone, tear them down, inflict shame, induce guilt, criticize. If you want to help someone change for the better, build them up, teach them what they need to know, instill pride, encourage and praise.
If you want to punish someone, tear them down, inflict shame, induce guilt, criticize. If you want to help someone change for the better, build them up, teach them what they need to know, instill pride, encourage and praise.