A True Friend

“A true friend wants the best for you; Brings the best out of you; Expects the best from you.” – Michael Josephson

Happiness is Like A Butterfly

“Happiness is like a butterfly: The more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.” – Henry David Thoreau

Avoiding Unkind Words

People don’t always remember what you say or even what you do, but they always remember how you made them feel. – Maya Angelou When I had four teenagers

Albert Einstein Quote

“The one who follows the crowd will usually get no further than the crowd. The one who walks alone, is likely to find himself in places no one has even been.” – Albert Einstein

Good Companions and True Friends

“Good companions are people you spend time with when you want to have a good time; True friends are the ones you want to be with when you’ve had a bad time.” – Michael Josephson

Be Cautious But Not Timid

“Be cautious but not timid; Believe you will succeed, But don’t be afraid of failing. Remember, every meaningful achievement is built on the foundation stones of false starts and failure.” – Michael Josephson

Sometimes Life Doesn’t Turn Out the Way You Expected

“Sometimes life doesn’t turn out the way you expected. That doesn’t mean you can’t or won’t be happy. If you don’t limit yourself to your first version of your life, there is always a bright future ahead. If you believe the best is yet to come, you will be right.” – Michael Josephson

Don’t Let Others Define You

“Don’t let others DEFINE YOU. Don’t let the past CONFINE YOU. Take charge OF YOUR LIFE – With CONFIDENCE and DETERMINATION, There are NO LIMITS on what you can do or be.” – Michael Josephson

COMMENTARY 974.5: Courtesy Is Kindness in Action

As a society we have become almost obsessed with identifying and asserting our rights – to think, say, and do what we want. That’s not surprising, given the history of our country and the prominent role the Constitution and Bill of Rights have played in shaping our culture. We have a right to be unkind, thoughtless, and disrespectful — but …

Sometimes Life Doesn’t Turn Out the Way You Expected.

“Sometimes life doesn’t turn out the way you expected or hoped.  That doesn’t mean you can’t be happy.  If you don’t limit yourself to your first version of your life,  there’s always a brighter future ahead.” – Michael Josephson

COMMENTARY 974.4: Responsibilities of Management

Modern managers often utter clichés about wanting employees to “think outside the box,” take risks, and be creative. And while I’m sure companies do appreciate break-through innovative ideas that increase profits, productivity, or quality, the fact is that most organizations are inhospitable to those who challenge old ways of doing things, even practices that are inefficient, useless, or counterproductive. I’ve …

Human Kindness

Franklin Delano Roosevelt told us that “human kindness has never weakened the stamina or softened the fiber of a free people. A nation does not have to be cruel in order to be tough.”  Given the tone and content of political rhetoric today, more than ever, we must have  the strength and courage to reject PROPHETS OF SELFISHNESS,  PURVEYORS OF …

It Is Never Too Late…

It is never too late to become a happier person. It is never too late to become a better person.

COMMENTARY 974.3: The Pressure to Win in Sports and Business

A former successful college coach and athletic director once wrote me a note about the state of college sports. The pressure to win in high-profile schools is so great, he said, that it’s almost impossible to resist rationalizing. When competitors cheat or engage in other unethical conduct, the tendency is to redefine the ground rules for competition rather than be …

What Will Matter In the End is…

What will matter in the end is not what you bought but what you built; not what you got but what you gave; not what you learned but what you taught. What will matter is not your competence but your character.  – Michael Josephson  See full poem on far right column

We Each Decide Who To Make Ourselves…

“We each decide whether to make ourselves learned or ignorant, compassionate or cruel, generous or miserly. No one forces us. No one decides for us. We are responsible for what we are.” – Moses Maimonides

Charles Dickens Quote

“Have a heart that never hardens, and a temper that never tires, and a touch that never hurts.” – Charles Dickens

Five Things to Learn From Your Children

Five Things to Learn from Your Children: Everything looks better after a nap. People who love you keep you safe. When you’re not sure what’s happening, just giggle. All you need to have fun is a good friend. Learn at least one new thing every day. – Michael Josephson

Parents Can Give Good Advice…

“Parents can give good advice, but the final forming of a person’s character lies in their own hands.” – Anne Frank