Six Honest Serving Men

I keep six honest serving men, they taught me all I knew; their names are What, and Why, and When, and How, and Where, and Who.” – Rudyard Kipling

If I Had To Do It Again…

“If had my child to raise all over again, I’d build self-esteem first, and the house later; finger-paint more, and point the finger less. I would do less correcting and more connecting.

Where are Your Values?

“It’s not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are.” – Roy Disney

Fathers and Sons

“One of the greatest tragedies of life is that father and sons can love each other deeply without ever getting to know each other.” – Michael Josephson

Winding Roads

“The path of least resistance is what makes rivers run crooked.” – Elbert Hubbard

Your Character & Reputation

“The decisions you make every day shape both your character (who you really are) and your reputation (what people think of you). Choose wisely because what you do and what you become is your legacy to all you love.” – Michael Josephson

Alone vs. Lonely

I don’t have to be lonely just because I am alone. I am in the company of thousands of good memories of people I’ve known and know, places I’ve been, things I’ve done and the feelings of joy, gratitude and pride that are still a part of me.

Here are 5 Profound Rules to Help Teens Survive and Thrive

BE YOURSELF. Mindless conformity is a prison; express yourself authentically. Don’t be afraid to stand out, but don’t go to extremes just to be different. DON’T EXPECT TOO MUCH OR SETTLE FOR TOO LITTLE. Don’t expect anyone else to make you happy and don’t allow others to treat you badly. Hang out with people who bring out the best in you. …

COMMENTARY: Wisdom in 20 Words or Fewer: Part One

Since my children were small, I launched their day with the invocation to “be good, have fun and learn.” I hope they remember that mantra, but when my daughter Samara began her independent life as a college freshman 3,000 miles away, I thought a more detailed set of maxims was needed. So I assembled a collection of concise (20 words or fewer) …

Looking Forward Through the Past

Your childhood is in the past so it consists of no more than the moments and feelings we remember. There were delights and disappointments, fun and frustration, success and shortfalls. It is much easier to look forward to the future when we do so from the vantage point of positivity about the past. Push out bad memories with good ones …

Republican or Democrat, Liberal or Conservative… We are ALL Americans

“America will never be destroyed from the outside. If we falter and lose our freedoms, it will be because we destroyed ourselves.” – Abraham Lincoln Whatever side of the aisle you are on, please revere and protect our American heritage and the core values that have made us great and strong.

COMMENTARY: The Commencement Curse

Millions of teenagers across the land are about to leave the womb of high school for a world full of new freedoms and responsibilities. Although many have been waiting for this event for a long time, eager to get on with their lives as liberated adults, the thought of leaving behind friends and familiar places can be scary. The transition …

Hold On Tight

“Hold on to the people and things that really matter. Let most of the other stuff go.” – Michael Josephson

COMMENTARY: We Expect More of Adults

Although 11-year-old Mark wasn’t much of an athlete, his dad urged him to play youth baseball. Mark liked to play, but he was hurt by the remarks of teammates and spectators whenever he struck out or dropped a ball. Just before the fourth game of the season, Mark told his dad he didn’t want to go. “I’m no good,” he …

ImPossible!!!

“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says, ‘I’m possible!’” – Audrey Hepburn

In Tribute

“Don’t count the days, make the days’ count.” – Attributed to Mohammad Ali

A Glimmer of Home or an Oncoming Train?

“At our lowest moments, we don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel; we only see more tunnel. This is when we must summon the courage to reject despair and surrender and call upon our inner reserves. Together, faith and determination will ignite a spark transformed by a puff of hope into a flame bright enough to show …

Get To Know the People Around You

“People fail to get along because they fear each other; they fear each other because they don’t know each other; they don’t know each other because they have not communicated with each other.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.

COMMENTARY: Refuse to Be Afraid

Tim Wrightman, a former All-American UCLA football player, tells a story about how, as a rookie lineman in the National Football League, he was up against the legendary pass rusher Lawrence Taylor. Taylor was not only physically powerful and uncommonly quick but a master at verbal intimidation. Looking young Tim in the eye, he said, “Sonny, get ready. I’m going …

Only Make People Feel Good

“People don’t always remember what you say or even what you do, but they always remember how you made them feel.” – Maya Angelou Remember this as you interact with your relatives. Many people dread family gatherings for fear that they will have to endure unfiltered and unkind comments or questions. Think before you speak and only say those things …

Challenge Yourself

Don’t limit your challenges. Challenge your limits. You can do so much more than you think you can.

3 Perspectives on Maturity

“Maturity is the ability to stick with a job until it’s finished; to do a job without being supervised; to carry money without spending it.” – Ann Landers “Everyone Grows Older. Some Attain Maturity. A Few Become Wise. It’s what you do with the experiences that come with growing older that makes all the difference.” – Michael Josephson   “Maturity …

COMMENTARY 988.1: Saying the Right Thing

When someone you care about is suffering greatly, what’s the right thing to say to make him or her feel better? There are all sorts of traumas that can send us to the darkest dungeons of despair – the death of a loved one, being raped, getting a divorce, losing a limb, seeing a child sent to jail or on …

Count Correctly

“Don’t count the days, make the days count.” – Muhammad Ali

COMMENTARY 987.5: The One-Minute Graduation Speech

I’ve given lots of commencement addresses and, despite the silly hat, it’s a head-swelling experience to tell a captive crowd how they should live their lives. The problem is, speakers are to graduations what turkeys are to Thanksgiving, except people are much more interested in a turkey on a platter than a turkey behind a podium. What we need is …